The 90's family of a princess
The word
“family” has the meaning of bonding between you and your family members. It maintains
a strong connection among each one of us by caring, love, emotion and
responsibilities. No doubt, sometimes we have a hot talk, but it doesn’t matter
at all because “if there is love then there exists a time of grief as well”.
Apart from this, the most loving relationship in a family is the father’s
relationship with his beloved daughter. Becoming a Father, should be considered
as a nature’s boon. But in our society, becoming a father is a big deal when you have a girl child.
The only eyes
in this entire world that see a child inside you, are your parents. But in case
of a girl, every year a father wishes his queen and blesses her with his
enormous love, but at the same time a number of thoughts coming into his mind
which he is unable to utter. Society endorses many misconceptions among each
other and implants a seed of distortion in a family. You have heard a line in
Indian society “Girls are foreign assets”.
Think of it with a father’s perspective, how he felt when someone said this to
him about a person who is like an adorable doll and to whom he has left
everything and enriched her with his precious love. But even though he accepted
it with a smile on his face, but he could not control his emotions when his
beloved princess left him and with his blessings, she established a new world after
marriage.
Yeah, we are all
belong to 90’s family and I am sure you all must have had a great time with
each other. An interesting yet emotional story of a father and his daughter has
been completely stuck in my mind from past decades. I felt, I should share it with
you so that you can conclude this story…
From childhood
to adolescence, if anyone cared for her and managed penny of her desire, he is
her father. He always tried to fulfil her every demand, whether he could afford
it or not. And in return, he wanted a hug to forget his pain, stress and
sorrow. Whenever she suffered from the disease, he was the one who broke his
nap in the midnight and spare his hand on princess head to reassure himself.
Time has
passed and with her fate the little doll becomes a beautiful girl. She has just
completed intermediate and has got an excellent percentage. In childhood, she
used to measure her father’s heartbeat with a baby stethoscope. And when anyone
asked her what she wanted to be, her answer was “Doctor”. Therefore, she wants
to get into medical college for further studies. But, "when it looks simple, complexity
starts".
It should be
noted, they belong to a mid-90’s family, where many relatives have very narrow
mindset about a girl. They started trolling him for her daughter’s higher education
and forced him to marry her with a rich family boy.
But in 2005,
she married a boy at the age of 19. She neither wanted to say goodbye nor hug
her father. But at the time of her farewell, she was splashing and sobbing inside
and realized the right shoulder where she could put her head- is only her
father. Tears welled up in her eyes, she grabbed her father to stop her from
leaving.
But at the
age of only 19, she was quite mature and ready to leave in order to maintain her
father’s dignity. She had tears in her eyes, but still gave him a childish
smile and mopped her father’s tears.
Conclusion:
Yes, I agree,
you blame her father for these causes, but what can he do. He doesn’t belong to
a high-class family to meet the demand of the groom’s family. And he found a
family that did not want dowry to marry her daughter. He thought that, this
family does not marry for money, but they marry just because of my daughter.
They have given importance to his daughter not his money. He thought she would
be happy, lifelong.
She is now
leading a happy life with one kid and loving family. But still she has to give
up her father, her desire and her dream. But if we look at it the father’s perspective,
he has done so for the protection of his daughter.
Dowry is like a taint in our society which has shamed humanity. In 2013, around 8083 dowry deaths were reported in India. And it causes death of a woman in every 90 minutes in India. And many cases are not even filed in the police record due to the corrupt system.
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DeleteAfter too long read your blog .. though a very great content especially on such sensitive topic...
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DeleteGood Deepak bhai! I appreciate it..!!❤️
ReplyDeleteTnq Abhash bhai😇
DeleteThe torch bearer of the society @deepak specially dowry system , outstanding work 👍❤
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DeleteGreat content 👏
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DeleteWell done bhaiya..... Such a good content
ReplyDeleteTnq brother😇
DeleteI read somewhere , baghwaan kisiko garibi na de aur agar garibi de to beti na de...the cruel truth of our society but solution is also in our hand . We just need to be brave , say no to dowry plus boycott the marriage party which is based on dowry ...
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# Thank you Deepak for choosing such a sensetive topic .🙏
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ReplyDeleteThank You brother for always sharing such great content 😇
ReplyDeleteThanks for your patience reading. Accept my gratitude.